It's Wedding Season Again, There Are Discounts on Invitations...
My mother always used to say "If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all!" So, I've been silent on the issue of "romantic" relationships. You see, I don't want to discourage anybody, but romance wears off.. It disappears, and what you are left with after the romance - sometimes, people just don't want to talk about it. It's usually nothing special. Then again, when it is something special, people don't want to talk about it because those with nothing special covet their "special" situation.
It can be a catch 22 situation. Let's just hope that before you say "I do!" That you fully understand what you are getting into. You can't just turn around and say I'd don't when he turns up fat, bald and unemployed ten years down the line. Not if you are in it for the long haul.
Neither can he just decide he wants to trade you in for a younger model when he reaches middle aged, is somewhat prosperous and is found attractive by young girls who want to "learn" the ropes of that fantastic business he built with your assistance. While, I might add you stayed home and raised the children you also produced together.
Take a look at what things might look for you 10 years down the line, 15, and 20 years down the line before you walk the isle of no return. Make sure you are walking it with your eyes wide open and not through rose colored glasses that actually break, scratch and fog up eventually. Good relationships don't break, they get more "comfortable" with time. Can what you have now withstand the test of time? 
